"Alright, so I've finished letting this set in, here's my final word. He was kind of harsh and you're kind of sensitive. Neither of you was entirely right or entirely wrong. But that's the thing--a lot of shit is grey. His opinion, your opinion, my opinion of something is only a part of the truth. And a part of the lies. Both. None of us can see everything... So what if you don't agree? You don't need to. If he's so angry, he can choose to get over it or go. If you don't like things about him, same to you."
On an emotional and personal level, dropping my attempt to be unbiased (Which, note, is impossible, we all believe things, we all have bias, everything I said was biased towards my opinions that everything I said was true. Complicated, hm?), I still side with her original stance.
I just feel sort of sad that she feels stupid or would doubt her opinions just because he's ranting, same as she was. The entirety of "them" as in them together just makes me bothered and annoyed more often than anything else.
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